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The Ceremonies

Church · FriSofreh Aghd · Sat

Friday, October 2 · 4:00 pm

Church of St. Nicholas

The Wedding Party

Bride
Anoumid Vaziri
Groom
Anthony Cullen
Celebrant
Father Pero Markić
Maid of Honor
Donya Shodja
Best Man
Paul Cullen
Parents of the Bride
Maryam Montazeri & Behzad Vaziri
Parents of the Groom
Ann & Eamonn Cullen
Flower Girls
Orlaith Cullen & Faye Jameson
Music
Cellists Nina Zvone & Elza Filipović

Order of Service

Introductory Rite

  1. Entrance Procession

    Canon in D

  2. Lighting of the Candles

    Ani and Anthony light two candles, representing their presence here as two individuals who come together in marriage.

  3. Entrance Antiphon

  4. Opening Prayer

Liturgy of the Word

  1. First Reading

    Song of Songs 2:10–13, read by Ann-Marie Jameson

  2. Responsorial Psalm

    Lauda, Jerusalem (Psalm 147), sung by Ann Cullen

  3. Second Reading

    1 Corinthians 13:4–8, read by Ann Cullen

  4. Gospel Acclamation

    Alleluia

  5. Gospel

    A reading from the holy Gospel according to John

Rite of Marriage

  1. Declaration of Consent

  2. Blessing of the Rings

  3. Exchange of Rings

  4. Prayers of the Faithful

    Read by Terry Deeney, Patrick Dawson, Eoin Diffley, Dermot Kelly and Joseph Cullen

  5. Lighting of the Marriage Candle

    Raglan Road. Ani and Anthony light the center candle, symbolizing their unity in marriage.

  6. Prayer of the Newly Married Couple

  7. Nuptial Blessing

Concluding Rite

  1. Final Blessing

  2. Signing of the Register

    Air on the G String

  3. Recessional

    Spring, Vivaldi

Saturday, October 3 · 3:30 pm

The Persian Ceremony

The Sofreh Aghd is a traditional Persian wedding spread, arranged with symbolic elements derived from nature that celebrate love, unity, abundance, and the couple's journey together.

On the Sofreh

  • Mirror

    Reflects the couple's bright future together

  • Candles

    Bring light, clarity, and warmth to their union

  • Bread

    For a life full of nourishment and celebration

  • Coins

    Represent wealth, luck, and success

  • Sweets

    A little symbol to wish the couple a sweet and joyful life together

  • Fruits

    A symbol of health and a joyful life

  • Honey

    For a sweet beginning and a sweeter journey together

  • Rosewater

    Sprinkled for its fragrance, bringing purity, freshness, and love

  • Wheat

    A wish for abundance and prosperity

  • Spice

    To protect the couple from negative energy

  • Eggs

    A symbol of fertility and new beginnings

  • Nuts

    Signify a rich and fulfilling life

  • Sugar Cones

    A symbol of sweet blessings for the couple

  • Book of Poetry

    Verses of love to bless the union

A poem by Saadi

One glance from you, my love, is worth more than a thousand words, more precious than any gift this world could ever give.

You are not like the sun, rising only to disappear again. Others may come and go, but you remain constant, eternal, unchanged.

And so, my love, I ask nothing more of time or fate, only that I may remain beside you, lost in the sweet intoxication of loving you, as you remain, forever, within my heart.

All my life, I shall remain lost in the sweet intoxication of loving you, for even before I came into this world, you had already made your home within my heart.

How could I ever speak of life without you, when my heart has never known a world in which you were not there?

The moment you revealed your face to me, every wandering path came to an end.

This heart of mine has long belonged to you. Take it, beloved, and hold it close; for after all the days of longing, let love at last be its healing.

A wise heart knows to whom it should surrender. For destiny is not ours to command, nor love ours to explain.

Some hearts are simply drawn together, as though they had known each other long before they ever met.